9/11: 25 years later - 'Lifetime wondering' for lost father

By the Editorial Team · Saturday, September 12, 2026

As the 25th anniversary of the September 11 attacks approaches, younger generations, including those born after the tragedy, are increasingly participating in commemorations and educational programs organized by the 9/11 Memorial & Museum. This growing involvement reflects ongoing efforts to preserve the memory of the attacks and sustain public awareness across generations despite the passage of time.

As the 25th anniversary of the September 11 attacks approaches, many Americans continue to grapple with the enduring loss and legacy left by the tragedy. According to the 9/11 Memorial & Museum, approximately one-third of the U.S. population today was not yet born when the attacks occurred, underscoring the passage of time and the evolving nature of remembrance.

One example is Manhattan Damota, now 24 years old, who was only an embryo when his father, Damota Sr., died in the World Trade Center on that day. Damota Sr. worked as a carpenter and had gone to a meeting at the Windows of the World restaurant to discuss upcoming renovations. He left behind an 11-year-old son and a wife, Barbara, who was pregnant with Manhattan at the time. Reflecting on the years since, Manhattan described his experience growing up without his father as "a lifetime of wondering" about the kind of relationship they might have shared.

“That empty chair, empty plate at the family dinner table represents so much,” he said. “I spent my whole life knowing my father through the memories of others and imagining the arguments we might have had.” His mother echoed the impact on the family, noting the close bond between Damota’s older son and Manhattan, saying her older son resembles their father “in every way.”

As the anniversary has drawn nearer, younger generations affected by the attacks increasingly have taken part in commemorations. Last year’s ceremony featured 28 readers who were born after September 11, 2001. While the 9/11 Memorial & Museum has not yet confirmed whether this number was exceeded for the 25th anniversary events, officials described youth participation as “significant,” reflecting ongoing efforts to engage younger New Yorkers through educational programs that communicate the day’s impact and historical importance.

These outreach initiatives aim to preserve the memory of 9/11 across generations, ensuring that despite the passage of time, the stories of those lost remain central to public consciousness. Personal tributes, such as that of a young boy honoring his grandfather who died in the attacks, continue to resonate deeply at anniversary events, highlighting the personal dimensions of national tragedy.

The 25 years since 9/11 mark a continued commitment to remembrance by families, communities, and institutions dedicated to honoring those who perished and supporting those who carry their memory forward.

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