A recent survey reveals that many young adults in the United States are increasingly opting to spend their weekend evenings at home, citing financial constraints, burnout, and feelings of loneliness as key factors. The findings spotlight Generation Z—those in their twenties—struggling to maintain traditional social lives despite a strong desire for meaningful connections.
The survey, conducted by Harris Poll, found that 51% of Gen Z adults report feeling lonely on a typical weekend, the highest rate among all generations surveyed. This figure is notably 37 percentage points higher than that reported by Baby Boomers aged 62 to 80. Nearly half (49%) of Gen Z respondents also said they do not have enough friends to spend time with in person, while 65% indicated that much of their social engagement now occurs through smartphones rather than face-to-face interactions.
Instead of attending bars and parties, the majority have embraced staying in as their default weekend plan. About 74% said they spend at least half of their weekends relaxing at home, and 73% stated that staying in has become their standard choice. A significant portion (88%) actively avoid traditional nightlife venues such as loud, crowded spaces, expensive outings, or alcohol-centered gatherings. Furthermore, nearly three-quarters (73%) expressed a desire for more social environments that do not primarily revolve around drinking.
Gen Z appears to be seeking alternatives that are quieter, less costly, and more meaningful. Roughly 79% want more affordable opportunities to socialize, with 76% preferring calmer settings. Over half (54%) said they would rather engage socially during the day than late at night.
The survey also highlights a notable shift toward wellness-oriented social activities. Sixty-five percent of respondents said they feel more socially connected in fitness classes or other wellness settings than in bars or clubs, reflecting a broader trend toward integrating health and social interaction.
Although the findings paint a picture of social challenges faced by young Americans, they also underscore a persistent desire for connection. Rather than withdrawing, Gen Z is adapting its social habits and displaying a willingness to develop new behaviors that fit their financial and emotional realities. The generation’s message is clear: they want to build friendships and community but require accessible and affordable social opportunities to do so.
