On April 30, 2022, Kamie Crawford and Xavier Champagne connected for the first time through the dating app Raya, marking the beginning of a relationship that would quickly deepen. Crawford, a television and podcast host and former Miss Teen USA, recounted that she initially joined the app at the suggestion of her assistant, who encouraged her to give online dating a chance. When she saw Champagne’s profile, she was immediately impressed.
Though they lived only a few blocks apart in Los Angeles, the two had never met before matching on the app. Champagne, a senior director of A&R at Warner Chappell Music in New York, said he was equally captivated and wasted little time in pursuing a connection. Within minutes of matching, they exchanged messages and then spoke on the phone for about an hour, arranging to meet the next day at Bacari, an Italian restaurant in Los Angeles.
The first date, according to both, left a strong impression. Crawford described it as the best she had ever experienced, noting an immediate sense of connection that went beyond physical attraction. Champagne said he was drawn to her personality and depth, especially in a city where meaningful conversations can sometimes be elusive.
Following their initial meeting, the couple went on two more dates in the subsequent week, including outings to Terroni in West Hollywood and Jones Hollywood. By August 2022, they chose to stop using the app, focusing instead on their growing relationship.
Two months later, while away on a work trip, Champagne expressed his desire to advance their relationship, telling Crawford he could envision a shared future and wanted to start it right away. He conveyed his love for her three times before Crawford felt ready to reciprocate; she explained she wanted to be certain, as the words meant a lifelong commitment to her. Since then, she has been open about her feelings, telling him how much she loves him frequently.
Crawford, 33, has established a career in television and podcast production, with credits including hosting “Catfish: The TV Show,” “Are You the One?” and “Ex on the Beach.” She also produces and hosts a podcast focused on relationships. A native of Cleveland and raised in Potomac, Maryland, she holds a bachelor’s degree in communications and media studies from Fordham University.
Champagne, 38, was born in Camden, New Jersey, and grew up in Willingboro and West Philadelphia. In addition to his work at Warner Chappell Music, he has a background in digital filmmaking, having earned an associate degree from the Art Institute of Philadelphia. He is also a father to an 18-year-old daughter from a previous relationship.