Sergio Parisse, Italy’s most capped rugby player and the first Italian inductee into the World Rugby Hall of Fame, recently launched his autobiography, *Number 8, my way*, reflecting on his career and the evolving role of the No. 8 position. The event, held near Milan’s San Siro stadium, attracted a large audience including former teammates and Italy national team staff, highlighting Parisse’s enduring influence in rugby both in Italy and abroad.

Parisse, 43, acknowledged a perceived gap between how he was viewed domestically and internationally. He suggested that many Italians saw him as someone with a commanding ego, while fans in the United Kingdom and wider Europe appreciated his on-field contributions. He emphasized that his approach was never about seeking attention but fulfilling his responsibilities as captain, including standing up to referees, opponents, and the media during challenging moments. For him, leadership meant prioritizing what was best for the team rather than personal recognition.

The title of Parisse’s book encapsulates his approach to playing rugby—eschewing traditional expectations attached to the No. 8 jersey. Rather than conforming strictly to a physical style centered on ball-carrying, Parisse incorporated tactical intelligence, versatility, and skill sets such as tactical kicking and creative playmaking. He described his style as driven by instinct, confidence, and a willingness to innovate while maintaining enjoyment of the game. He stressed that fun should remain fundamental despite the competitive nature of rugby.

Parisse also spoke on the broader evolution of the No. 8 role in contemporary international rugby. He cited Caelan Doris of Ireland as a player who blends softer skills with physical prowess, making him somewhat more unpredictable than many others. Parisse observed that modern back-row players tend to emphasize athleticism and work rate over technical nuance, such as situational awareness and spatial exploitation. He expressed hope that players like Henry Pollock—whom he described as "super talented"—could balance individual flair with a deeper understanding of the game to leave a lasting legacy.

Reflecting on his personal journey, Parisse recounted his rapid rise from Argentina to representing Italy, sharing anecdotes from his early career including less glamorous moments with former teammates. He also spoke candidly about personal challenges, such as his breakup with his first wife, Alexandra Rosenfeld, and expressed gratitude for the support of his current wife, Silvia Bragazzi, whom he married in 2014. The family returned to Rome recently as Parisse took on the role of Italy’s lineout coach after three years in the same position at Toulon.

Parisse remains deeply involved in Italian rugby’s present and future. Despite Italy’s mixed results in the recent Nations Championship—marked by wins over England and Scotland but losses to New Zealand, Australia, and a notable defeat to Japan—he expressed optimism. Italy’s upcoming fixture against South Africa in Turin will commemorate the tenth anniversary of Italy’s first victory over the Springboks, a milestone in which Parisse played a key role. While acknowledging South Africa’s strength, he highlighted improvements in Italy’s forward pack and the importance of strategic play to counteract the opposition’s power.

Throughout his career, Parisse maintained unwavering belief in his team’s potential to win, contrasting with some teammates’ more pessimistic outlooks. His commitment and distinctive leadership style have left a lasting mark on Italian rugby as it continues to develop on the international stage.