For many men, wedding attire remains a traditional and restrictive choice centered on dark, formal suits that often resemble funeral wear, a trend some experts now suggest should change. Summer weddings, in particular, offer an opportunity to adopt lighter fabrics and more relaxed styles that better suit the celebratory nature of the occasion.

Historically, men’s wedding guest outfits have hewed closely to standard grey, navy, and black suits, colors and cuts which can feel outdated and uninspired. In contrast to the expanding market for women’s wedding fashion, men’s options have lagged behind, limiting opportunities for personal expression. As warm weather events become more common, there is growing encouragement to experiment with alternative colors and cuts that combine comfort with sophistication.

Lighter shades such as pale blue, green, or cream are recommended for summer weddings, evoking a more relaxed and festive tone. Mixing jacket and trouser colors and textures, rather than insisting on a matching suit, can add dimension to an outfit—combinations like pale green with cream or brown with blue provide complementary aesthetics. Shirts in soft hues like light blue or green can introduce subtle color without overwhelming the look, while white is generally discouraged to avoid clashing with the bride.

Fabric choice plays a key role in both appearance and comfort. While pure linen is prized for its look, it is highly prone to creasing, which can detract from the overall impression if guests are seated for long periods. Cotton or cotton-linen blends are recommended as more durable options that maintain breathability. Despite the summer heat, shorts remain unsuitable for wedding attire.

Accessory choices offer additional opportunities for style and personality. Vintage watches, bold socks, and sunglasses (worn discreetly during the event) can elevate a look. Properly fitting trousers should cover shoes appropriately, and socks should not be omitted; instead, colorful and patterned socks are encouraged to add visual interest. Shoes with a modest heel, such as a Cuban heel or slightly raised loafers, can improve posture and confidence without compromising formality. Ties remain optional, with vintage ties, bolo ties, or decorative brooches cited as stylish alternatives, especially in warm weather when foregoing a tie altogether may be more comfortable.

An unconventional but increasingly endorsed suggestion is for men to carry small bags or pouches to avoid bulky wallets or phones in pockets during photos. Small leather purses are seen as practical accessories that can be set aside easily during dancing.

For those unwilling or unable to invest in a new suit, there are affordable secondhand options as well as numerous ways to refresh existing wardrobes through thoughtful accessorizing. The consensus encourages moving away from overly rigid norms toward sartorial choices that reflect both style and the celebratory spirit of weddings.