Tun Dr Mahathir Mohamad, Malaysia’s former prime minister, mourned the loss of his wife and lifelong companion, Tun Dr Siti Hasmah Mohamad Ali, who passed away recently at the age of 100. Known for her quiet strength and unwavering support, Dr Siti Hasmah played a significant role beside her husband throughout his long political career, while maintaining a low profile herself.

Dr Siti Hasmah was widely regarded not only as the prime minister’s spouse but also as his closest confidante. Sufi Yusoff, a longtime aide to Dr Mahathir, described her as “everything to him.” This sentiment resonated across Malaysia, where thousands expressed their grief and admiration on social media platforms.

Former Cabinet minister Tan Sri Rafidah Aziz recalled the couple’s close bond during official engagements, noting how Dr Mahathir and Dr Siti Hasmah often interacted more like friends than traditional political spouses. Rafidah, who served as International Trade and Industry minister during Dr Mahathir’s tenure, said she admired Dr Siti Hasmah’s humility and the natural rapport she shared with her husband, uncommon among political couples.

Dr Siti Hasmah’s support extended beyond the public eye, as her children have noted her role as a pillar of strength at home. Daughter Datin Paduka Marina Mahathir has previously spoken about her mother’s private yet steadfast encouragement, adding that if she ever disagreed with Dr Mahathir, she expressed it quietly.

Throughout Dr Mahathir’s premierships, Dr Siti Hasmah accompanied him on numerous official trips but preferred to maintain a low-key presence. She would take part in separate programs for spouses during diplomatic visits and shunned the spotlight. Despite this, she earned the respect and affection of international leaders, including a noted friendship with Russian President Vladimir Putin. During a 2018 ASEAN Summit visit, a photograph showing Putin holding Dr Siti Hasmah’s hand captured public attention. She later explained humorously that she simply held the hand of the only person near her in a moment of fun.

Dr Siti Hasmah was also a pioneering figure in Malaysia’s medical field, particularly in maternal and child health. Her contributions included efforts in rural economic empowerment and active support for Malaysian sports, notably badminton. She was instrumental in establishing a preparatory course at the National Institute of Public Administration (Intan) for wives of ambassadors and diplomats and was involved with Bakti, the club for spouses of ministers.

Upon Dr Mahathir’s retirement in 2003, Dr Siti Hasmah expressed relief at regaining time with her family after years of public service. Her passing drew many Malaysians to pay their respects at their home in Taman Sungai Besi Indah and at the funeral in Putrajaya.

Dr Siti Hasmah’s death marks the end of a quiet but impactful partnership that played a formative role in Malaysia’s political and social development, leaving Dr Mahathir to grieve the loss of not just a spouse but his closest friend.