Jonathan McKinsey, a former technology executive at The New York Times, struggled with mental health challenges during a tumultuous period in his personal life, according to court documents filed amid a custody dispute. The records reveal that McKinsey attempted suicide twice between 2009 and 2010, with some events linked to conflicts in his relationship with Candice Jang, whom he later married.

Court papers indicate that McKinsey’s first known suicide attempt occurred in 2009 under circumstances that remain unclear. In December of that year, McKinsey reportedly sent an email to Jang recounting the episode and commenting on family dynamics. In the message, he accused his parents of neglect, stating that they failed to contact their daughter despite the difficult situation. He also mentioned that he had been hospitalized for mental health reasons following the attempt.

The second suicide attempt took place in early 2010, according to declarations submitted during the legal proceedings. McKinsey alleged that Jang had engaged in hostile behavior toward him, including making derogatory remarks related to his transgender identity. In a restraining order petition, he stated that Jang told him he should take his own life because “no one would want to be with someone f--ked up and transgender like” him. McKinsey said he subsequently tried to end his life but survived.

The couple married in Texas in 2011. The documents suggest that their relationship was marked by significant emotional strain prior to their marriage, including confrontations and mental health crises. A psychiatrist’s declaration included in the court papers supports Jang’s position in the ongoing custody matter.

The filings provide insight into the personal challenges faced by McKinsey, whose tragic death was reported recently. The case highlights complex issues surrounding mental health, identity, and domestic conflict. Neither McKinsey’s former employers nor Jang have publicly commented on the court documents.