In early 2018, Yulia Conley, a Russian-born American studying environmental change at the University of Oxford, received an unexpected invitation to meet Pavel Durov, the elusive Russian billionaire behind the messaging platform Telegram. The meeting took place in a desert resort near Dubai, where Conley spent several days engaging with Durov on topics ranging from climate change to education. Known for his privacy and unconventional style, Durov impressed Conley with his strong-willed and calm demeanor, despite a noticeable emotional detachment from the world’s problems.

Pavel Durov, born in St Petersburg (then Leningrad) in 1984, first gained prominence as the co-founder of VKontakte, Russia’s leading social network. After losing control of VKontakte amid clashes with Russian authorities, Durov positioned himself as a digital nomad, shifting his operations across Europe before settling in Dubai. In 2013, he launched Telegram, a messaging app emphasizing encryption and user privacy, featuring its own proprietary data protocol developed by his brother Nikolai. Telegram’s design aimed to avoid any single government’s jurisdiction by distributing servers globally and abstaining from reliance on major cloud providers.

Telegram grew rapidly, attracting millions of users by offering greater security and functionality beyond messaging, including broadcast channels for reaching unlimited subscribers. While the platform provided a space for pro-democracy activists in places such as Hong Kong, Iran, and Belarus to evade censorship, it also became a tool for illicit activities. Notably, the Islamic State used Telegram to disseminate propaganda and coordinate the November 2015 Paris attacks. In response, Telegram removed numerous ISIS channels and announced measures to curb terrorist content, though critics have argued that content moderation remains minimal.

As of 2023, Telegram has expanded to over a billion users across the globe, positioning itself as the primary competitor to Meta’s suite of apps like WhatsApp and Facebook. The platform played a significant role during the October 7, 2023, Hamas attack on Israel by livestreaming the assault, and continues to be widely used by combatants and civilians in the ongoing conflict between Russia and Ukraine.

Throughout Telegram’s rise, Durov has maintained a low public profile compared to other tech leaders, overseeing a core team of roughly 60 employees. Former insiders describe him as a demanding yet inspiring leader with a strict personal code—he abstains from alcohol and meat, practices a seagan diet, and prioritizes wellness and personal growth. Despite his mystique, investigations have challenged Durov’s narrative of complete exile: leaked border records indicate he frequently returned to Russia and continued working from the VKontakte headquarters in St Petersburg even after officially distancing himself.

Conley, who was recruited to lead Telegram’s government relations and content moderation efforts, described the company culture as one where dissent was rare and Durov’s decisions were rarely questioned. During her three-year tenure, she helped establish working relationships with European institutions such as Europol, Interpol, and the EU Internet Forum, advocating for balance between free expression and platform safety. Her departure in 2021 marked a shift, with subsequent leadership reportedly less cooperative with authorities.

Durov’s ventures have not been without controversy. His launch of the Telegram Open Network, a cryptocurrency project, raised $1.7 billion before facing regulatory challenges from the U.S. Securities and Exchange Commission, leading to the project's collapse in 2020. Around the same time, Telegram’s ban in Russia was lifted, and Durov appeared to improve his ties with Russian authorities, with company officials participating in events alongside high-ranking government figures.

In addition to facing challenges from governments worldwide, Durov claims to have survived an assassination attempt involving symptoms consistent with nerve agent poisoning, a detail he disclosed in 2025 but has not publicly substantiated.

Telegram’s ongoing role as a major platform for communication and information dissemination continues to place Durov at the center of complex debates over internet governance, privacy, and the challenges of moderating digital content across conflicting political landscapes.