Steve Alexy and Arlyn Smith are transforming perceptions of disability through their achievements in powerlifting, demonstrating resilience and strength despite significant physical challenges. Both living with neurological conditions that impair muscle coordination and speech, the Virginia-based couple has competed and excelled in mainstream powerlifting competitions, earning national and international recognition.

Alexy, 53, was diagnosed with cerebral palsy as a child, a disorder that affects muscle control. He grew up in Franklin, Virginia, and began lifting weights regularly as a teenager. Between 2014 and 2019, he competed in bodybuilding, where judges evaluate muscular symmetry and tone rather than lifting capacity. Alexy claimed victory in nearly all 13 contests he entered. In 2024, he set a deadlift record in the United States Powerlifting Coalition, lifting 227 pounds in his 67.5-kilogram weight class within the men’s masters 50–54 division.

Smith, 45, lives with cerebellar ataxia, a condition caused by damage to the brain’s cerebellum, which controls balance and coordination. Her condition followed a stroke at age 23, itself a consequence of an overdose. Smith spent 15 years unable to move without assistance. After recovering from substance abuse and anorexia, she began training with Alexy about five years ago near Williamsburg, Virginia. Their shared interest in athletics and mutual support propelled her from dependence on a walker to competing across all three powerlifting disciplines: squat, bench press, and deadlift.

Smith holds a world deadlift record recognized by the International Powerlifting Coalition for the women’s masters 45 to 49 division at 56 kilograms. Last year, she lifted 264.5 pounds—more than twice her body weight of 123 pounds. Additionally, she set national records in squat (130 pounds), bench press (103.6 pounds), deadlift (257.9 pounds), and total lift (491.6 pounds) according to certificates from the United States Powerlifting Coalition.

Both Alexy and Smith emphasize the disconnect between their physical disabilities and intellectual capacities. They often encounter assumptions that their speech difficulties or unusual gait reflect cognitive impairments, a misconception they find frustrating. Instead, they stress that their minds remain sharp despite the physical challenges they face.

Their training takes place almost daily at Retro Flex Gym, owned by Hunter Darden, who describes them as “inspiring people.” The gym environment has been integral to their progress, with Smith steadily regaining mobility, including walking unassisted for the first time in years.

Their relationship began through a mutual connection met during a bodybuilding show, blossoming into a partnership characterized by mutual encouragement and shared determination. Now, through their competitive successes and personal journey, they hope to challenge societal attitudes and inspire others facing similar obstacles to pursue their own strength and potential.