Sai De Silva, a cast member on the sixteenth season of "The Real Housewives of New York City," opened up about the significant personal changes she has experienced over the past year. Appearing in the season premiere, De Silva revealed to fellow cast member Jessel Taank that she and her husband of nine years, David Craig, had become estranged after enduring prolonged marital difficulties. This marked a departure from her earlier portrayal on the series, where she had maintained a more positive image of her marriage.
De Silva acknowledged that her past behavior, including her critiques of Taank’s relationship with her husband, Pavit Randhawa, reflected a less empathetic perspective. She expressed that the challenges she faced have since made her more understanding and emotionally open. “The way I handled things back then is not necessarily the way I would handle things now,” she said, emphasizing her desire to take responsibility for previous actions and mend strained relationships. Taank accepted De Silva’s apology, signaling a renewed sense of camaraderie between the two.
Despite initial apprehension about revealing her personal struggles on reality television, De Silva described the process as therapeutic. “Anytime you open up about your personal life, you’re opening yourself up to other people’s opinions,” she said. Yet she stressed the importance of authenticity, declaring, “This is me; this is who I am. Take it or leave it.”
De Silva also spoke about her motivations for continuing with the series after the initial reboot concluded. She said the current season presents an opportunity for the cast to “redeem ourselves” and offer viewers a clearer understanding of their dynamics. Reflecting on her evolving relationship with Taank, De Silva noted that getting to know her co-star beyond the surface has been rewarding, revealing shared qualities and deeper connections.
When asked about the widely discussed "Real Housewives Ultimate Girls Trip" finale party at Bluestone Manor, De Silva denied attending the event and said she was unaware of any behind-the-back remarks made by Erin Lichy about Taank.
Looking ahead, De Silva suggested that viewers should expect shifts in friendship dynamics within the group, describing upcoming changes as “shocking.” Beyond the show, she revealed that she has launched a new Substack publication titled "Sai Unseen," where she channels her passion for writing. She described writing as a therapeutic outlet and expressed enthusiasm about the positive reception from readers.
Additionally, De Silva teased the introduction of a new product she has developed, which may be featured during the season. She characterized the product as “nostalgic,” “beautiful,” “mysterious,” and “enticing,” marking her initial foray into entrepreneurship.
Overall, De Silva emphasized that this season will showcase her personal growth and emotional evolution as she navigates life post-divorce, embracing both her past and future with greater openness.