Norfolk, Va. — In the wake of renewed attacks in the Middle East earlier this week, Senator Mark R. Warner convened a roundtable discussion on July 3 with military families, veterans’ organizations, and service providers to address the challenges faced by those connected to recent deployments. The event, held at Old Dominion University, focused on strategies for enhancing federal support for military families, particularly those linked to the USS Gerald R. Ford Carrier Strike Group.
The group recently returned from an unprecedented 326-day deployment—the longest for any carrier strike group since the Vietnam War—which included extended operations in the Middle East and an unexpected rerouting near Venezuela. The deployment was marred by persistent logistical challenges aboard the Gerald R. Ford, including plumbing failures and a fire that left hundreds of sailors without bedding.
Warner, a Democrat, began the discussion by critiquing the administration’s handling of the ongoing conflict with Iran, labeling it a “war of choice” absent any imminent threat. He referenced a report indicating that the previous administration declined a Ukrainian offer in August to help counter Iranian drones at lower cost. Warner warned of the mental and emotional toll the conflict is exerting on deployed personnel and their families, expressing concern over potential long-term impacts on military retention.
A key point raised by military spouses involved the scarcity of affordable, reliable child care. Warner highlighted recent bipartisan efforts, including allocations totaling approximately $110 million toward constructing new child care facilities, with plans to secure an additional $300 million. Janet Days, former commander of Naval Station Norfolk and now Suffolk’s director of economic development, noted the slow pace of facility construction and advocated for interim solutions, such as grants for in-home child care providers to ease regulatory barriers like conditional use permits.
Family members sharing their experiences underscored these difficulties. Navy veteran and reservist Natalie Spangler described the challenge of finding day care compatible with her schedule, noting the lack of awareness about existing resources until late in her husband’s deployment. Similarly, Rasheeda Senger, a federal worker married to a recently returned Air Force veteran, emphasized the importance of military spouse telework exemptions and a pilot program providing in-home nannies, urging lawmakers to maintain these provisions to help balance employment and family needs.
Other participants highlighted ongoing hardships beyond child care. Tessa Davis, director of child and youth programs at the Armed Services YMCA and a military spouse, reported heavy demand for the organization’s food pantry, which has operated under strain since the pandemic and occasionally must close temporarily to replenish supplies. Kayla LaFond, Virginia Military Spouse Liaison for the Department of Veterans Services, called for reforms to the military health insurance program TRICARE, stressing that support often overlooks military families in favor of veterans and transitioning service members. She argued that improving reimbursement rates for TRICARE providers would expand care options for families.
Warner thanked the attendees for their detailed input and pledged to work toward addressing the issues raised. The senator suggested reconvening the discussion within 90 days, a proposal met with strong enthusiasm from those present. Nearly all participants indicated they would participate in a follow-up meeting to continue the dialogue on supporting military families amid ongoing deployments and evolving challenges.
